How To Spot A Narcissist Immediately On A First Date Catherine Behan

He may want to sit on the same side of the table. He will touch you a lot, or if you are not one for public display of affection, he will pick up on that quickly and accommodate you. Charming is his middle name. It wouldn’t be surprising if he brought you a gift. Sounds a lot like the perfect guy, doesn’t it? I know and that’s what makes it scary....

January 11, 2023 · 5 min · 994 words · Paulette Hall

Human Remains K9 Joins Search For Brian Laundrie At Carlton Reserve

Laundrie disappeared on September 13th following the nationwide coverage of then-missing, now-dead Gabby Petitio after he returned home from the couple’s roadtrip without her. Authorities were led to believe that he was somewhere in the Carlton Reserve after his parents told officials that he went for a hike — now they’ve returned with some backup. Cadaver-smelling K9s have been brought in to search for Brian Laundrie. According to WFLA reporter Allyson Henning, this morning, law enforcement activity started back up for the first time this week in the Carlton Reserve area where she spotted a “Forensics K9” car parked along the Venice side of the park....

January 11, 2023 · 3 min · 573 words · Betty Robinson

I Asked My Deceased Grandma This Question And It Changed My Life

Last night, my grandmother came to visit me in a dream. It’s been awhile since she has done that, and the last time she did, she stuck around long enough only to tell me to tell my uncle that he looks good (yeah, I don’t know either). Anyway, last night in my dream, she was at her kitchen table holding a puppy version of my recently deceased dog. The room was unusually bright and sunny, which is unusual because she lived in the woods and just didn’t get a lot of sunlight in her house....

January 11, 2023 · 4 min · 668 words · Jennifer Ponyah

I Left My Husband For A Married Man But He Never Left His Wife

RELATED: What Really Happened The Year I Cheated On My Husband The flower had been given to me a couple of days earlier by my married boyfriend. It carried great weight with it. It was a promise that my pain would end soon, that he would finally leave his wife and be with me. Of course, I didn’t believe it; there was no way I could. We’d been together for three years....

January 11, 2023 · 4 min · 740 words · John White

I M 25 And Trying To Date While Battling Irritable Bowel Syndrome

There is no escape and as quickly as it begins, my happy and flirty nature turns to panic and distress as I try to slow down my talking, breathing, and praying that it will pass before I have to bolt off to a bathroom. RELATED: The Surprising Dating Advice That Gets Real Results My first thought is, Not here, not now. My second thought? How can I hide this from the cute guy who, for now, has a perfect image of me?...

January 11, 2023 · 5 min · 1008 words · Alma Wiggins

I M A Christian Mom Of Two Who Just Wants To Smoke Pot

But the universe (in the shape of my over-protective husband) has kept me from it. Not to mention the act was forever on my conservative, iron-clad list of don’t even think about its ever since Nancy Reagan taught me as a child to “Just Say No”. As a teen, I stayed away from pot because it was a matter of abiding by the law like a God-fearing citizen should (yep, I talked like that as a teenager)....

January 11, 2023 · 6 min · 1214 words · Jose Ash

I M Not Brave I M Human

How brave, thank you, Nikki. You’re so brave. Brave. Brave. On May 2, 2019, I published my first ever personal essay. I’d been writing full-time for a year, but most of my work was fiction, and nothing I’d written had seen the light of day. But I was ready for something more, something deeply personal. My entrée into the world of the essay was all planned out. The outlines and drafts were ready....

January 11, 2023 · 9 min · 1849 words · Lorraine Wilkins

I Regret My Abortion

“Want to share some onion rings with me?” He smiled, knowing they were my favorite. RELATED: My Chemical Pregnancy Was Still A Miscarriage — And Worthy Of Mourning “Sounds perfect,” I agreed, placing my menu down and doing my best to relax and not feel like an irredeemable screw-up with a scarlet “A” branded on my forehead — “A” for “baby-aborter,” in my case. I had been impregnated by a man whom I’ll call “John,” six weeks prior....

January 11, 2023 · 6 min · 1220 words · Kenneth Settles

I Thought I Was The World S Biggest Screw Up Until My Son Was Diagnosed With Adhd

Nowhere. I was nowhere. RELATED: 6 Common-But-Often-Overlooked Symptoms Of ADHD In Adults In the middle of a trendy West Hollywood café, with writers typing away on laptops all around me, I broke down in tears. Every task was difficult, especially writing, and it was getting harder to concentrate as I got older. I felt overwhelmed and trapped in my own head. I knew I needed help, but didn’t know where to get it....

January 11, 2023 · 6 min · 1239 words · John Thiel

I Took Nora Ephron S Love Advice And It Saved My Life

“Above all, be the heroine of your life, not the victim.” —Nora Ephron I dreamed the other night that my kids told me my ex-husband, their father, was getting remarried and buying a million-dollar home in Maui. “Oh, must be nice!” I responded sarcastically to this breaking news. I immediately felt bad for allowing my sixth-grade schoolyard voice to speak out loud, but I felt such resentment and jealousy that he was living high on the roasted pig with Miss Newby, and I was still struggling financially as a single mom....

January 11, 2023 · 6 min · 1240 words · Russell Chung

I Ve Died Every Night Since I Was A Child

I wanted to go home, but everyone kept insisting I was already there. I managed to cope with life until my body started to change. I was seven and totally unprepared for early puberty. My parents had let me live without imaginary borders of gender. I was a girl, but I was also a boy in the sense that I spent most of my days adventuring outdoors. I stayed out all day, cycled for miles, climbed trees, built treehouses, foraged for mushrooms and berries....

January 11, 2023 · 7 min · 1436 words · Thomas Rodriguez

I Ve Officially Slept With 99 People And Now I M Lookingformyhundo

According to the creepy (and confidential) Excel spreadsheet I keep that documents my sex life, I’ve slept with 99 people. The vast majority of these people (let’s call it 97%) were men. RELATED: Being ‘Sex Positive’ Doesn’t Mean I Want To Sleep With Women I can see it now; my life as a dark romantic ’90s comedy. Young woman tallies 99 sexual partners, decides that’s “too many” partners, and saves herself for #100, and a knight in shining armor arrives....

January 11, 2023 · 5 min · 1051 words · Jeffrey Oliver

I Was A Bridesmaid In My Boyfriend S Wedding

I’ve been dating Eric for more than 4 years now, and I still cringe a little bit when someone asks how we met. It’s a sordid tale that gets some pretty great side-eyed glances when I reveal the truth: that I used to be good friends with Eric’s ex-wife. Like, really good friends. Like, I was one of three bridesmaids when she and Eric got married — that kind of good friend....

January 11, 2023 · 8 min · 1626 words · Phyllis Fellin

I Was A Crack Addict For More Than 20 Years

How often I wished that I had never taken that first hit of crack cocaine. How many times did I wonder how different things might have been? Like many, I grew up in a great family with plenty of opportunities. It would have been much more likely for me to go on to graduate college, embark on a career and start a family than to wind up in prison. But that wasn’t at all what happened....

January 11, 2023 · 6 min · 1137 words · David Clarno

If You Can T Trust Someone You Can T Love Them

I was young and so I accepted it, thinking it was a one-time thing, never to happen again. When she cheated the next time and the next time after that, I was numb but blamed myself. RELATED: How Someone Treats You Is How They Feel About You. Period. Years later, as I lay in bed with someone who wasn’t my girlfriend, I thought about that girl who said she loved me....

January 11, 2023 · 3 min · 484 words · Jamie Mcgeorge

If You Do These 13 Things You Think With Your Heart Not Your Head

But yet, you ignore reason and think with your heart. While it’s not always a negative thing, here are the 13 signs you’re thinking with your heart and not your head. 1. Rejection really crushes you. After a breakup, you can’t see the silver lining. All you can think about is how much you miss them, how badly you want to touch them. You ignore your brain when it tells you that the breakup was a good thing and listen to your heart, which is throbbing in pain....

January 11, 2023 · 3 min · 625 words · Melanie Franklin

If Your Relationship Has These 11 Traits You Re Ready To Get Married Roland Legge

There is nothing magical about getting married — it will only enhance healthy relationships and make destructive relationships even worse. Relationships are complex. So, if you want to have a healthy relationship, you and your partner need to be committed to making it work. Being committed means taking responsibility for keeping your own emotional, physical, and spiritual health. You need to be one hundred percent responsible for your own happiness....

January 11, 2023 · 8 min · 1516 words · Tommie Akins

Indiana Woman Allegedly Kills Cheating Boyfriend By Hitting Him With Car

The Indiana woman, Gaylyn Morris, allegedly hit her boyfriend, Andre Smith, with her car after tracking him through an Apple AirTag on June 3. Gaylyn Morris is accused of driving over her boyfriend three times after finding him with another woman. Morris found Smith in a bar in Indianapolis with another woman. When Morris first found the two inside the bar, she allegedly tried to attack the other woman with a wine bottle....

January 11, 2023 · 3 min · 501 words · Barbara Whiteman

Inside Gwyneth Paltrow And Winona Ryder S Longtime Feud

The two were constantly spotted out together during the late 90s, which was the height of both of their careers. For Ryder, she had gained notoriety for her roles in “Beetlejuice,” “Edward Scissorhands,” and “Little Women,” while Paltrow had recently starred in the films “Se7en” and “Emma.” RELATED: 9 Strict Rules Gwyneth Paltrow Makes Her Two Kids Follow On top of that, both women had been dating best friends Matt Damon and Ben Affleck, and Paltrow was even the one who’d introduced Ryder to Damon....

January 11, 2023 · 4 min · 756 words · Cheryl Barnett

Inside The Secret Gay Neighborhood In Tehran Iran

But homosexuality has not always been a crime in Iran. Some folks might question the necessity for a space specifically for gay men, but it is clear from the recent sentencing of two Iranian activists that there is still a lot of contempt for anyone who is not straight and/or cisgender. Iran’s Supreme Leader Ali K called Western civilization “a new age of ignorance”, and referred to homosexuality as a “severe moral deprivation” in a televised speech, according to US News....

January 11, 2023 · 4 min · 703 words · Douglas Hannah